16 August 2023

The Power of Listening: Sometimes, It's the Most Important Thing You Can Do

 In a world filled with noise and constant distractions, we often overlook one of the most valuable skills we possess: listening. While we may think that talking and expressing ourselves is the key to effective communication, we often forget that listening plays an equally crucial role. 

1. Building Stronger Connections: Listening is the foundation of meaningful connections. When we truly listen to someone, we show them that their thoughts, feelings, and experiences matter. By giving our undivided attention, we create a safe space for others to share and feel understood. This fosters deeper relationships, trust, and empathy. 

2. Enhancing Personal Growth: Listening isn't just about hearing words; it's about understanding and learning from different perspectives. By actively listening to others, we expose ourselves to new ideas, insights, and knowledge. This can expand our horizons, challenge our beliefs, and promote personal growth. Through listening, we open ourselves up to a world of endless possibilities.

 3. Resolving Conflicts: Often, conflicts arise from misunderstandings and miscommunication. By listening attentively, we can gain a clearer understanding of the issue at hand and the emotions involved. This allows us to respond with empathy and find common ground. The act of listening demonstrates respect and shows a willingness to work towards resolution, fostering healthier and more peaceful relationships. 

4. Supporting Mental Health: In a fast-paced world, people often yearn for someone who will listen without judgment. By lending an empathetic ear, we give others the space to express themselves freely, which can be incredibly therapeutic. Listening can provide solace and validation, making individuals feel heard, understood, and less alone. It's a simple act that can have a profound impact on someone's mental well-being.



Listening is a skill that requires practice and intentionality. By honing our listening skills, we can cultivate deeper connections, foster personal growth, resolve conflicts, and support others' mental health. It's a powerful tool that allows us to understand and connect with the world around us. So, let us remind ourselves that sometimes the most important thing we can do is to simply listen.


currently listening to I Wish U Heaven, by Prince

11 August 2023

The world is filled with actors

      The world is filled with actors. People acting like they're your friends. Acting like they care about your well-being.  Smiling at you, saying all the right things-without doing a damn thing to support you,  they will like your advertised work, and they will comment how beautiful it is, and some will repeatedly encourage you to open a brick and mortar business even though they've had your desserts for years and ain't  never bought  sh!t. If you do open a brick and mortar business, they're the types who will visit the business, come inside, look at the displays, tell you they like what they see, that everything looks so delicious, eat all the free samples, then leave the business empty-handed on a Daily basis. And, periodically ask you about how the business is going.  Some will stop by the business everyday just to see what's on display and will leave without saying a word.  Some will also say you need to start a baking business every time they taste your contribution at a social event (and when they see the annual post of the party there will be comments stating they are glad the cake guy is coming) and you will give them a business card every year you see them, but they will contact you not to place an order, but to invite you to a party and ask you to bring (for free) the last dessert you brought to the last party of a mutual friend.  

  The world is filled with actors.   Acting like they wish you well when they could care less if you fell off the face of the earth.

ok, rant over. 


Sorry about that.

currently listening to Triumph (instrumental) by Wu Tang Clan

   

The Floacist, Let Me ft Beautiful Black Women with Afro, 2014