24 February 2020

Ja'Net Dubois Jefferson's theme How the song was written

May she rest in peace

some people

some friendships are more fragile than others, but are fragile friendships really friendships?

some of my friendships end once I decide to stop initiating our method communicating. And by the way- my only reason for stopping is to see if they care enough me to ask why they haven't heard from me.

some, i never hear from again.

others will message me within a certain length of time, to check in on me.

i'm not talking about all friendships. i have a friend from high school, jimmy; we may connect once every 5 or 6 months, and we can catch up where we left off as if no time has passed. 

i'm talking about those i connect with regularly. those that i realize are fragile. those that i never ever hear from again.

i once had a group of friends that i hung out with regularly. every payday weekend we'd drive to either milwaukee or chicago and party it up. one day i wanted to see if i was inviting myself, so i didn't call any of them.  the very next payday weekend, they went to chicago. no one even called to check in on me to ask where i was or why i wasn't with them.  i got my answer.


communication is very important to me, and if people can't spare 5 seconds to text 'hey wassup' at the very least, that tells me so much about them. 

DESUS & MERO

07 February 2020

Jussayin'


u don't  have to be a Christian to behave like Christ. i have friends that don't even believe in the existence of a supreme being of any kind, and i have muslim, buddhist, and sikh friends as well, and they have proven to be more Christ-like to me in my moments of despair than those who know the Bible from Genesis 1:1  to Revelations 22:21, inside out, in english, spanish, german, french,  and latin.