30 November 2019

Words and action are 2 different things

Just thinking,

people are always telling me that I should open a storefront to sell my baked goods, as they seem to like what I make, and they like my facebook and instagram posts of my cakes and other desserts (check out A Cake Supreme ) but if I had a dollar for every one of them who actually purchased anything from my business,


I'd have 99 cents.

A friend from Wisconsin saw facebook posts of all the desserts I made for thanksgiving (a mango coconut cake with honey buttercream frosting, an apple pie with cinnamon roll crust, and champagne ice cream) and she assumed that I was probably busy with all of my cake orders for thanksgiving. I told her, 'no, I only had one order. My friend Anton orders a cake from me every thanksgiving, Christmas, birthday, or other social event. All the rest you saw posted on facebook that day was what I had made for a dinner to which I was invited.'    On another post, another friend from Salem Oregon assumed the same thing, that I was probably busy with thanksgiving orders. I replied, saying what I had said previously, and his response was, ' maybe they're too far away?'   I said 'most are local.'
He said 'well that sucks. Kinda like window shopping. That doesn't help the store owner.'

I didn't respond.







True





                   No one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you retaliate.

29 November 2019

Meanwhile, at the office...



there are two kinds of people; there are those who will straighten your crown for you if it's crooked, and there are those who will talk about how your crown was crooked. 

25 November 2019

Clifford Brown & Max Roach - Jordu

I'll leave this right here

Sometimes being silent is better than telling others how you feel. Knowing that you are being heard but not understood could be more painful than expressing your feelings.

22 November 2019

Don't be cruel

Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel. -King Solomon

My top 10 (17) Musicians of all time

P R I N C E 

Max Roach
Charlie Parker
Charles Mingus
Wayne Shorter
               John Coltrane
Miles Davis
         Igor Stravinsky
McCoy Tyner
                                           Stevie Wonder
Elvin Jones
      Andre Cymone


R O Y   A Y E R S
   
D'Angelo

Raphael Saddiq
                                                                      James Poyser
J. Dilla


Max Roach - Effi

19 November 2019

Note to self


Today

I'm in a good mood today. I'm a day closer to finding my soulmate. Who knows, it might be today. I need for her to see the smile on my face. I need to be and appear happy, receptive to communication. When she sees I'm happy, I'll be approachable; she might want to know why. I know that, personally, I'm more drawn to people with positive auras rather than negative auras. I've decided to be receptive to everyone I meet. Who knows-she could be the sister (or ex) or coworker of a guy I may meet today, or seated next to me at a club or restaurant, or the daughter of an older lady seated next to me on the train. You never really know through what vessel she might appear. I hope that I feel the same way tomorrow.