When someone elses shortcoming becomes my focus,it most likely I have some of the same issues that I have not dealt with. Anyway bottom line in all of this I can't change another person period. A person I believe will only change when they are backed up aganist a wall or when God makes a change in them.
Recognizing their shortcomings will also help take them off the pedestal!
I had a few people in the church world who are used by God put up real high, but their human side made them crash and burn for me, but not before they destroyed some things for me. You live and learn. *sad face*
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When someone elses shortcoming becomes my focus,it most likely I have some of the same issues that I have not dealt with.
Anyway bottom line in all of this I can't change another person period.
A person I believe will only change when they are backed up aganist a wall or when God makes a change in them.
you're right. especially the last sentence.
Wow! So True. I'm going to paste a link in facebook for some friends.
Thanks for your condolences,
SLC
Recognizing their shortcomings will also help take them off the pedestal!
I had a few people in the church world who are used by God put up real high, but their human side made them crash and burn for me, but not before they destroyed some things for me. You live and learn. *sad face*
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